Saturday, July 21, 2007


Failure and mistake happen on and off. The real challenge is to forgive ourselves and move on with better opinion of ourselves as we tackle and get above the past. The tendency to come out with excuse to shift blames to other people is too real. When we feel that we should not be blamed and we shifted the weight to other people, we tend to feel better for a short term but it doesn't solve anything.

The long term solution is to forgive ourselves for the mistakes, shift no blame to noone and move on learning from the mistakes.

The act of forgiving ourselves is far more difficult and challenging then just shifting blames to others.

Not that I advocate blaming ourselves for no reason. However, most of the time it's always easier to blame others and turn a blind eye on ourselves.

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